Online dating can be an intimidating world, especially
for those who are faced with physical limitations that make them
vulnerable.
In order to keep the process of meeting
new people light and fun, here are some basic tips to protecting
yourself.
1. Disabled personals are the starting place
for people looking for dating, and it's also a great way to
screen out potentially dangerous admirers. Make it clear in your
personal that you are a confident and independent person! Those
with bad intentions will be interested in only the most insecure
disabled singles. If you seem too eager to give your heart to
someone, no questions asked, then you are sending out the
message that you can be taken advantage of easily.
2. Always meet in public and bring your own
transport. This is a given, but it is absolutely important. Not
only does it make a first date less awkward and strange, but it
ensures that your safety is protected. Maybe you're about to
meet the love of your life. But right now, you don't know how
trustworthy your date is.
3. Tell friends and/or family where you will
be and for how long. Let those around you know about your date
so that if something goes amiss, action can be easily taken.
4. Don't drink too much! A glass or two of
wine might be suitable for the date, but you don't want to lose
your ability to reason, judge, and take care of yourself in the
case that your date will be looking for an opportunity to take
advantage of you. Dating sites are no different than bars or
grocery stores really – any and every kind of man and woman will
go there, and there's no way of telling if they have your best
interest in mind based on a chat room conversation, etc.
5. Research the accommodations for disabled
persons beforehand. Is there handicap access? Whatever your
physical problems, you and/or your date should make sure that
the atmosphere of your first date is safe for you. This way, you
can concentrate on your date and not be worried about your
physical comfort.
6. Limit the amount of personal information
you give out. Don't tell your date exactly where you work or
live right away – they must earn your trust, not assume it!
7. Is the disabled dating service you're
using reliable? Do they screen members? Do you pay for the
services? If you answered “yes” to these last two questions,
then you are probably in good shape.
8. Most of all – trust your instincts! If
you feel suspicious about someone and you don't know why, go
with your gut and make up an excuse to leave. Chances are there
is something fishy about the situation and you don't want to put
yourself at risk for the sake of giving him or her a try. Body
language might be more important than words spoken, so it's
these little details that can reveal to you whether your
emotional or physical security is at risk.
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